Last updated on April 8th, 2019
Cheers! He got down on one knee. I said yes. We kissed. The end. Let’s toast!
Not enough details? Here’s the story of how a Texan gentleman proposed to a California girl. On Thursday, Lucas’s parents escaped the Texas heat, hoping for breezy sunshine in California. We swooped them up from the SF airport and whisked them away for a coastal drive to Monterey where we fixed a blown tire, loaded up on salt water taffy, circled the scenic 17-mile drive, touched a starfish at the aquarium, and slurped a bowl of fresh clam chowder. The kitties enjoyed their first slumber party alone and nothing was destroyed…or peed on. We left the chilly Pacific shores behind for the oven-baked Silicon Valley where we toured the maze of rooms at the Winchester Mystery House before heading back to Berkeley.
While passing through the heart of artichoke land with farm after farm stretching into the horizon on both sides of the highway, we learned his parents had never eaten a fresh artichoke before. So the next day we picked up three jumbo thistles at the market down the street on our way up to Chico to meet my parents and Nana for the first time. All was going smoothly – the fancy china came out, the parents exchanged stories of little Sarah and Lucas, the hum of homemade ice cream churning in the machine provided background music…then my dad discovered the empty propane tank on the grill. Dinner was delayed, but the barbecued steak was worth the wait. Little did I know, Lucas’s palms were sweating up a storm under the table. He’d planned to propose over peach blackberry cobbler and homemade vanilla ice cream at the dining table, but the Olympics were so darn captivating that dessert was served while we all had our eyes glued to the on-screen swimmers and he missed his moment!
Around 9:30pm, I got up to drive Nana home. Nana stood a couple of feet behind me saying her goodbyes. Lucas grabbed me by the waist and told me to wait a second. Here’s where my memory blanks and picks back up with Lucas on one knee declaring his love for me in front of the entire family with this custom-designed Sarah Perlis ring in his hand. It was sweet. And perfect. And ended with lots of smiles, hugs, and pictures. So this mocktail was one last hoorah toast with his parents still in town.
Since neither of us drink alcohol, but we LOVE unique beverages, we concocted this celebratory sparkling ginger lemon mocktail with all our favorite flavors. A signature mocktail perhaps? Spicy sugary simple syrup, tart lemon juice, sparkling seltzer water, topped with candied ginger slivers and a sugar-coated rim. This stuff should be bottled. It’s a refreshing summer beverage perfect for a warm August evening. Having tried every ginger brew we come across, we rank this sparkling libation high up among the best. Lucas’s mom dubbed this drink the “She Said Yes” in honor of the occasion. Salud!
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- Our engagement photos
- Wedding Part 1 – First look, backyard reception, & vows
- Wedding Part 2 – Backyard BBQ reception details and bride & groom portraits
- Honeymoon Part 1 – Food lover’s guide to Taipei & Jiufen
- Honeymoon Part 2 – Food lover’s guide to Tokyo
- Honeymoon Part 3 – Food lover’s guide to Kyoto
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She Said Yes: Our sparkling ginger lemon signature mocktail
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Cassandra -
Can’t wait to try this! And to see the ring in person! Congrats!!
Sheri -
Such a memorable evening! So happy we were all together to share in the proposal!
Colette -
May you wake up every day, sharing one pillow, as we say in Armenian. Congrats!
Sarah Menanix -
Thank you, Colette!
Tina -
Congrats, girl :)
Sarah Menanix -
Gracias!
Jory -
hehe, “culinary stunts”, nice
It’s about time you two gave up the fast and loose lifestyle for the tranquility of domestic bliss.
Lucas is a good man, you done did us proud :)
Sarah Menanix -
Haha, Thanks, Uncle Jory! You’re silly. Maybe you’ve got a little ring bearer in your midst…we shall see!!
Lane Schmidt -
Sarah, we are so happy to hear the good news that you and Lucas share. Best wishes to you.
Your ring is lovely, please tell me what the stones are, they are beautiful.
Lane and Ron :)
Sarah Menanix -
Thanks, Lane! The stones are three different diamonds. The one on the right is a brilliant round cut, on the left is a triangular white rose cut, and on the bottom is a round champagne rose cut.
lane schmidt -
Just lovely, thanks for sharing. He did an amazing job at designing your ring.
hugs, lane
Kayleigh -
I love the ring – and the mocktail is a great idea! Myself and hubby also don’t drink, but love different drinks, so this is perfect.
Sarah Menanix -
Thank you! It’s so warm out this weekend, I wish I had more of this mocktail to sip on as the sun sets. Let me know if you two end up trying it!
Kayla -
That’s so sweet! Congratulations!! :)
Sarah Menanix -
Thanks!
Megan -
Wow what a lovely unique ring!
I just discovered your website through Finding Vegan and I’m so glad I did! I’m excited to look through some of your cookie recipes! :)
Sarah Menanix -
Thank you! My husband did a good job picking it out/designing it:) Thanks for stopping by
annie -
I still can’t get over that ring. so good, Lucas. so good.
Sarah Menanix -
Thanks, girl! I’ll pass your compliments along – he’ll be so pleased:)
WhimsyMe -
Question more than comment….I’ve made ginger syrup many times, and I’m curios… When you make this syrup do you let it simmer and turn brown? I have yet to find the happy medium to make it as spicy as i like with out the caramel flavor taking over…we do drink but I use my juicer to make health packed booze (if possible) using beet juice and ginger regularly. Anyways- if you’ve mastered a super spicy syrup would love tips, till then I’ll burn some more sugar and sip icky sugar water till its perfect ;)
Sarah Menanix -
Good question! I just made this again a couple of weekends ago and I didn’t have the issue of it turning brown and caramelizing. I prefer a bit of sweetness to offset the tart lemon, but it definitely has a kick. I’m not sure I would call it “super spicy,” but definitely a noticeable spice. In this version, if you add more ginger, I think it’ll get even more spicy, and I’ve never noticed a caramel flavor when reducing it to syrup. In your previous batches, did you use the same ratio of water to sugar as I did? I think this might contribute to why it turns brown – if the water boils off before the ginger infuses, the sugar will definitely caramelize. UM that beet juice ginger drink sounds INCREDIBLE. This last time I also used honey instead of half the sugar and it was a great spin on it (and a bit healthier:).