Last updated on April 8th, 2019
This post is basically a one-stop shop to finding a sweet Valentine for that special someone. Since google analytics tells me y’all are about 88% women, by special someone I mean: you. Treat yo’ self! With a gluten-free double chocolate cupcake with raspberry red currant filling, a hand-forged bracelet, and a book about love. (For the other 12% of you, take notes.)
If I could mail the dark chocolate cupcakes to you without them turning to cake mush, I would (mostly because I’m finding it hard to resist eating one for dessert after every meal). But unfortunately I can barely get from the kitchen to the table without spreading frosting on the wall.
You know how you find sand everywhere after the beach? That’s me with chocolate frosting. Note: this is also how you get ants.
So instead, I’m tickled pink to be sharing this love-filled collaboration with two locals from my hometown.
The first is my future sister-in-law Alexis whose debut novel Love & Other Theories just hit the shelves on NYE. (See how I lied in the sidebar —> and called her my sister-in-law? Future-sister-in-law just doesn’t have the same ring). The book is a young adult fiction about a group of girls who have developed theories for avoiding heartbreak by following the wisdom of Marilyn Monroe: “A wise girl kisses but doesn’t love, listens but doesn’t believe, and leaves before she is left,” until it all falls apart their senior year.
Even though Alexis spent several family vacations tucked behind her laptop writing the book, she didn’t let us read it until she had an advanced reader copy in hand. No one could put it down. We passed it around the family so ferociously that by the time it got to me, the pages were warped and earmarked, showing our love through its wear.
I invited Alexis over here for a quick interview to learn about the theories, characters, and the witty girl behind them. So here goes:
How did you come up with the theories and did they change as you wrote the book? Have you ever tested any of the theories?
The theories evolved after the characters. In earlier drafts of the book, they were just implied. As the story developed and it became clearer what these characters believed, and the creed they were living by when it came to boys and dating, then I was able to spell out the theories.
I never went by these theories when I was growing up, though my friends and I did have one rule about dating that we took very serious. It was: always order penne pasta on the first date. (Fitting for this blog!) It’s the easiest dish to eat and you don’t have to worry about being messy—the last thing you want to think about on a first date, right? Funnily enough, on my first date with my fiancé I ordered fish tacos. Possibly the messiest thing on the menu! Like most dating theories/rules, the penne pasta rule was meant to be broken.
Are there parts of any characters you see in yourself? While you were writing, did you ever think of yourself as one of the characters?
I didn’t think of myself as one of the characters. When I write, the characters are so distinctly individual to me, so I never feel as though there’s too much of me reflected in them. Now that the story is done though, I can see different things about the characters that I can relate too. Melissa’s motto: Better paranoid than sorry. The way Aubrey tries hard to balance studying and partying. Danica’s laid back attitude.
There’s a quiz that tells you your dating style in relation to the characters of Love and Other Theories—if you’re curious!
How did you get into writing? What were some of the first things you ever wrote?
I’ve loved writing since I was very young. My first writing partner lived across the street—we were in elementary school. We wrote and illustrated our own picture books, then sold them to our parents. In middle school it was pure luck that I met someone who not only liked writing as much as I did, but also liked Jurassic Park as much as I did. We wrote several versions of what would probably be referred to today as Jurassic Park fanfiction. And, of course, our Jurassic Park stories always starred Leonardo DiCaprio. I also rewrote Cruel Intentions at age thirteen, adding several words of conversation between Annette and Sebastian because as it was written, I wasn’t convinced they were really in love.
Who is your TV character spirit animal and why?
Definitely Rachel Green from Friends. Growing up I always copied her hair. She loves fashion and if I had to do something other than writing, my dream job would be to work as a buyer, like she did. I also always, always, always wanted to date a paleontologist. My dinosaur fascination stretched beyond Jurassic Park, though I never wanted to take any of the science courses required to be a paleontologist, I just wanted someone to tell me the inside scoop on the latest dinosaur discoveries.
Here’s where I’ll butt in to say that my brother – not a paleontologist – works for Sierra Nevada and learned everything he knows about dinosaurs from the Flintstones. BUT he did take Alexis to a dinosaur exhibit once, and when they first started dating, he even tagged along to paleontologist lectures (scoping out his competition?).
While I don’t live by a set of theories about love, this hand-forged cuff from Amy Waltz Designs has my life motto spelled out inside: “EAT CUPCAKES.” Words to live by, guys.
Especially when cupcakes taste as rich, tender, and moist as these. Wearing it around my wrist reminds me that one of these cupcakes after dance class “replenishes your chocolectrolytes,” as Alanna puts it.
Anyone else think frosting is often a way to mask a boring dry cupcake? Usually, enjoying a cupcake is almost as much about the frosting as it is the cake. These cupcakes are not that. We’ve got frosting on them because that’s what makes cupcakes pretty, and a fruit-filled cupcake would look silly without some buttercream to cover up the berry pit, but these cupcakes are strong enough to stand on their own.
I know because that’s how I’ve been eating the leftover cupcakes all week. The cake is light and fluffy, but rich and moist, and it bites down with the same soft tenderness of a traditional bakery cupcake. To make the cupcakes extra special, the raspberry red currant filling gives a sweet tart surprise, but feel free to fill with any jam you want, or to leave them without if you prefer. Topped with chocolate buttercream, these double chocolate cupcakes are a lesson in indulgence indeed.
Alexis’s book is described as “equal parts bite and romance,” so I think this indulgent chocolate cupcake with a berry filling fits the bill. Plus, chocolate is her weak spot.
Valentine’s Day Book & Bracelet Giveaway
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Disclosure: I was not compensated to write this post. Amy Waltz Designs has generously given me the bracelet pictured here and are providing the bracelet for one reader. As always, the opinions expressed here are solely my own. *I grind my own oat flour by pulsing gluten-free oats in the blender or food processor until fine, then sifting out any large pieces. **For non-gluten-free version, replace the oat flour, millet flour, brown rice flour, sweet rice flour, tapioca starch, and xanthan gum with 3/4 cups all-purpose flour
Double Chocolate Cupcakes with Raspberry Red Currant Filling
Ingredients
Raspberry Currant Filling
Chocolate Buttercream
Instructions
Raspberry Currant Filling
Chocolate Buttercream
Notes
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Jen @ Baked by an Introvert -
February 5, 2015 at 5:09 amThese cupcakes are wonderful, Sarah! I love all the chocolate in them and that filling sounds to die for. These are simply gorgeous for Valentine’s Day!
We plan to just take it east for Valentine’s Day. We are big celebrators of the holiday. Everyday should be an expression of love toward your significant other, not just one day a year.
Sarah Menanix -
February 5, 2015 at 10:58 pmI’m big on the take it easy. We usually just use it as an excuse to buy expensive ingredients to make something tasty at home!
laura -
February 5, 2015 at 5:44 amthat recipe looks amazing! I would swap the berries for raspberries. I totally agree about frosting often covering rubbish, dry cakes. Very disappointing.
Sarah Menanix -
February 5, 2015 at 10:59 pmRaspberries alone would be so delicious! These red currants were whispering “take me” at the market, but they’re usually hard to find, so raspberries are a great choice!
June Burns -
February 5, 2015 at 6:42 amProbably going to make some cake for Valentine’s day :)
Min -
February 5, 2015 at 7:12 amHow awesome is this!! Congrats to your sister-in-law!! I can very much relate to this : better paranoid than sorry. And I shall def replenish my chocoelectrolytes (brilliant!) with these cupcakes. I can’t call myself a true cupcake lover since I tend to scrape off the icing (most of the time). It works since that’s the part Tim loves ;). Now filling? that I def cannot stay away from!!
Sarah Menanix -
February 5, 2015 at 11:21 pmI scrape off the icing too! #twins! Trust me, these cupcakes are good enough to just forgo the cupcakes all together!
Steph @ Steph in Thyme -
February 5, 2015 at 7:13 amSimply stunning! My husband and I are spending Valentine’s Day snowboarding in Vermont. I’m going to want a whole plate of these when we get back!
Sarah Menanix -
February 5, 2015 at 11:25 pmWhat?! I want to come! We haven’t had much snow here so I’m super jealous.
Tina @ Just Putzing Around the Kitchen -
February 5, 2015 at 7:19 amGirl, you have really outdone yourself with these cupcakes – they’re gorgeous, and I want to eat like 50 of them RIGHT NOW!
For Valentines Day I’m technically going to be eating cheese fries and watching Princess Bride with Dan at a local cinema, but I’m going to pretend our Disney trip later in the month is a super belated V-Day celebration, OK?
Sarah Menanix -
February 5, 2015 at 11:29 pmDude – you should have been here because that’s how many I made. YES! It totally is a V-day celebration. I CAN’T WAIT! LET’S EAT ALL THE SNACKS!
Dane H. -
February 5, 2015 at 7:25 amI’m not a huge sweet person normally, but these look amazing! If only my girlfriend liked chocolate…
Sarah Menanix -
February 5, 2015 at 11:30 pmIF ONLY…..
Meg@ Beard and Bonnet -
February 5, 2015 at 7:35 amThese are so beautiful!!! I bet they taste amazing too. I can never seem to find currants, but when I do I know what I am making.
Sarah Menanix -
February 5, 2015 at 11:32 pmMe neither! I’d never seen them at the market before and they were calling out to me with their bright red color. Since I use store-bought currant jelly in the filling, you can make these even without fresh currants and just top them with raspberries instead:)
Alice @ Hip Foodie Mom -
February 5, 2015 at 8:27 amSarah, these cupcakes are absolutely gorgeous! I love currants! and hey, any chance to win that gorgeous hand-forged bracelet and a book about love. (Wow! your future sister-in-law wrote a novel?!) that’s huge! he and the hubs are going out for V-day but a few days earlier. . b/c we’re smart like that.
Sarah Menanix -
February 6, 2015 at 1:09 amThat’s an excellent plan! I just talked to Lucas tonight (he’s in China…again) and we both grumbled at the idea of going out ON V-day, so I think we might do the same!
Alice @ Hip Foodie Mom -
February 5, 2015 at 8:28 am“me” and the hubs :)
heather @french press -
February 5, 2015 at 8:48 amBC – we wold always hit a restaurant in the city, now AC – we celebrate at home, and we love it – and this year I see us celebrating with these cupcakes, seeing as how i love with three serious chocolate lovers
Erin R. -
February 5, 2015 at 9:02 amWell, I’ll probably sleep in since it’s on Saturday this year. (We’re not big Valentine’s people.)
Sarah Menanix -
February 6, 2015 at 1:10 amHa – I’ll probably do the same;)
Lisa / Good on Paper -
February 5, 2015 at 9:34 amCongrats to your sister-in-law!! you guys are lucky to have each other ;) those cupcakes look divine!
Natalie @ Tastes Lovely -
February 5, 2015 at 10:12 amCongratulations to your sister-in-law for writing a book! What an amazing accomplishment! I’ve added this book to my reading list. These cupcakes are simply beautiful. Love the red currants!
Sarah Menanix -
February 6, 2015 at 1:28 amPlease let me know what you think if you end up reading it! Also – thank you so much!
Ragini -
February 5, 2015 at 10:14 amHi,
loved the idea of the book and your enthused intro.
So, since I am librarian at the county library system, I got a few copies ordered.
Thanks for all the lovely recipes you post.
ragini
Sarah Menanix -
February 6, 2015 at 1:33 amI just read this to Alexis and it made her so happy! Thank you so much!
Lynn | The Road to Honey -
February 5, 2015 at 10:47 amWhat an appropriate cupcake to pair up with your sister-in-law’s treasure of a book. Congrats to here and this cupcake looks divine.
Carla (@charliesue) -
February 5, 2015 at 11:12 amIT’S S’s BIRTHDAY. And I HAVE NO IDEA. AHHHHhhh!
Sarah Menanix -
February 6, 2015 at 1:40 amAhhhhh – I’m sure you’ll think of something and it will be super special and AMAZING!
Chris @ Shared Appetite -
February 5, 2015 at 12:08 pmSo I guess I’m part of the 12%, huh?! Hahaha. Totally loving the raspberry currant filling… never would have thought of that flavor combo. AND super cool about your sis-n-law writing a book! When she’s big and famous she has to invite you to all her swanky parties, right?
Sarah Menanix -
February 6, 2015 at 1:42 amHaha – you should feel part of a select and elite group;) I hope so! (Alexis, ARE YOU READING THIS??)
Marissa | Pinch and Swirl -
February 5, 2015 at 1:04 pmLove that bracelet and it seems like a perfectly reasonable life motto to me. ;) Your cupcakes look gorgeous, btw. I love those fresh currants on top…
Sarah Menanix -
February 6, 2015 at 1:45 amThank you so much, Marissa! It was the first time I’d seen fresh currants at the market and I knew I had to have them.
Alice @ Honestly Fitness -
February 5, 2015 at 1:06 pmGah, so many awesome things going on in this post! Your (future) sister-in-law’s book actually sounds really interesting and like a fun read. Fingers crossed I win the giveaway and that your cupcakes get magically delivered along with it (hah, wishful thinking) :P
Ashley @ A Lady Goes West -
February 5, 2015 at 1:10 pmI don’t have Valentine’s plans yet, so let’s hope the husband is coming up with something!
Sarah Menanix -
February 6, 2015 at 1:46 amHow can I get a message to him??? hehe.
Sarah -
February 5, 2015 at 1:11 pmWith my husband, drinking good beer and sharing a delicious Upper Crust cake (this is what we do every year) !
Sarah Menanix -
February 6, 2015 at 1:47 amAh! A fellow Chicoan! Mmmm – I want Upper Crust cake!
Amanda Paa -
February 5, 2015 at 3:53 pmthis book, this post, those cupcakes! i could really use a new fiction read to give my brain a little rest. how exciting for your future sister-in-law. and the bracelet totally speaks my language. on valentine’s day i will be at in an indoor farmer’s market, then watching brian play hockey. yes, they scheduled a game for that day, men. :) hope you enjoy the night with your sweetheart!
Sarah Menanix -
February 6, 2015 at 1:48 amYeah! This is such a fun read- I hope you enjoy it! The indoor farmer’s market sounds like a lovely start to V-day (Brian better treat you reallll nice for spending your V-day watching him play hockey;)
Amy @ Thoroughly Nourished Life -
February 5, 2015 at 5:02 pmWe are celebrating Valentine’s Day with a perfect-for-us date! Burgers and ‘The Theory of Everything’ because we are both huge science lovers. Then we’re going to get ice cream and drive to the spot where we finished our first date. Two years and going strong :)
Can’t wait to read this book!
Sarah Menanix -
February 6, 2015 at 1:50 amAww – that sounds like such a well-thought out and special date! I hope you love this book!
Holly -
February 5, 2015 at 5:08 pmThe cupcakes look amazing
Allie | Baking a Moment -
February 5, 2015 at 5:57 pmThese cupcakes are absolutely stunning! And congrats to your future sister in law!
Kelly - Life Made Sweeter -
February 5, 2015 at 10:24 pmYay, congrats to your future sister-in-law for writing a book! So cool! These cupcakes are gorgeous! Love the red currant filling!
Bobbie -
February 5, 2015 at 10:35 pm“Replenishes Chocolytes” that’s the best thing I’ve read! This is a great V day package, and I imagine how sweet it would be for anyone to win all of this. The book sounds interesting, btw! You are in a family of creatives I tell ya!
Sarah Menanix -
February 6, 2015 at 1:54 amSuch a good justification for more cupcakes, right? It’s TOTALLY NECESSARY FOR MY BODY ;) Thanks so much, Bobbie! xx.
Sheri -
February 5, 2015 at 11:04 pmI need a bracelet to remind me to eat cupcakes! And I’ve read this book, love it!
Sini -
February 5, 2015 at 11:41 pmThese cupcakes are real beauties! And surely delicious as well.
Sarah Menanix -
February 6, 2015 at 1:56 amThank you so much! Four days later and they still taste moist and delicious – unfortunately for my hips, they’re almost all gone now…into ma belly;)
Traci | Vanilla And Bean -
February 6, 2015 at 4:47 amFabulous giveaway, Sarah! Thank you for this opportunity! Your photography makes me pause and gawk… and drool… and gawk some more. It’s so early, but never-mind that. I could sink my teeth into these cuppies right now while wearing that beautiful bracelet and reading your sister in law’s book. I could just chock it up to inhaling my daily chocolectrolytes and being fancy. Even if I don’t win (although I’ve had some luck lately ; ) ), I’ll be heading over to Alexis’ Etsy shop and surprise myself with a little Valentine’s day love! *This is how I celebrate Valentines day!* What beautiful work! I need frequent reminders to eat cupcakes anyway. Thank you, Sarah!
Sarah @ Whole and Heavenly Oven -
February 6, 2015 at 5:11 amThere is seriously so much fun stuff going on in this post! How awesome that your sister-in-law wrote a book! And these cupcakes are pretty much perfect-o. I LOVE that currant filling! So creative. :)
Liz @ Floating Kitchen -
February 6, 2015 at 11:21 amThese are wonderful! I actually have family coming to town next weekend, so I’ll be with them. Nothing romantic (because that would be weird!), but hopefully there will be chocolate involved!
Karen @ The Food Charlatan -
February 6, 2015 at 11:32 amI totally need to read this book!! Preferably while eating these GORGEOUS cupcakes and wearing your jewelry. Basically I want to be you. I promise to feed the cats?
Sarah Menanix -
February 6, 2015 at 11:34 amThat’s better than I can do. Aioli wakes me up in the morning prancing on me when I’ve gotten to feed them when Lucas is out of town (that’s his job). ;)
Jennifer C. -
February 6, 2015 at 2:50 pmHow fun! These cupcakes look yummy!
Holly E -
February 6, 2015 at 3:55 pmWe are celebrating with dinner and a movie.
Annie -
February 7, 2015 at 11:47 amjust being with the husband ;) yayy Alexis! so excited for you!
kristie {birch and wild} -
February 7, 2015 at 1:45 pmLove the book, love the cupcakes (so pretty), and really love you photos!
Amy L -
February 7, 2015 at 3:53 pmI am fairly newly single so likely spending it with my 8 year old. Unless my soulmate shows up on my doorstep. I’m told he’s quite close but haven’t spoken outside of dream. lol
Ami@NaiveCookCooks -
February 7, 2015 at 8:40 pmYour pictures are a joy to the eye. Simply superb photography and big congrats to your “future’ sis in law!! Great job girl!
Ami@NaiveCookCooks -
February 7, 2015 at 8:42 pmOhh and no special plans for vday yet but I will make sure I make lot of sweet treat for hubby!!
Thalia @ butter and brioche -
February 8, 2015 at 12:20 amThese cupcakes are making me swoon.. they look so sweet, dark and delicious – and all that frosting, just WOW!
Oana -
February 8, 2015 at 2:31 amLook at these beauties. They’re so delicate. I can only imagine how good they taste with that luscious frosting!
Rebecca @ Strength and Sunshine -
February 8, 2015 at 11:44 amSadly (or not!) I have no plans! Just me :P
Julie Raye-Rod -
February 8, 2015 at 5:35 pma nice night out with my boyfriend.
Shikha @ Shikha la mode -
February 8, 2015 at 9:57 pmEqual parts bite and romance – that’s the best description I’ve ever heard for anything! I want to somehow say that everyday.
Julia -
February 9, 2015 at 8:53 amI just ordered the book! I can’t wait to receive it and dive in. I <3 Marilyn Monroe, and your future sister-in-law sounds like one cool gal! Will let ya know how I like the book.
Deez cupcakes. I need them all.
Sarah Menanix -
February 9, 2015 at 12:28 pmOh my gosh! I hope you love it!! I’m sure she’ll be so pleased to hear that you ordered it!
Amy @ Amy's Healthy Baking -
February 10, 2015 at 4:58 pmSarah, these are GORGEOUS! You always have such a way with photos and food. Teach me your secrets! And yes, flour and cocoa powder are like the sands of the kitchen. And dark chocolate too. How do I end up with stuff in my hair, down my shirt, on my slippers?… Sigh. I’m just cool like that, I suppose. ;) Pinned!
anna @ annamayeveryday -
February 11, 2015 at 6:05 amSuch beautiful little cakes and your photographs are amazing!
LoveCompassionateLee -
February 11, 2015 at 1:12 pmThis recipe looks like the perfect indulgence for a rainy Saturday (home alone) with a cozy throw and a stack of one’s favorite DVDs. Happy Wednesday :)
ellie | fit for the soul -
February 13, 2015 at 12:25 pmGirll, you’ve outdone yourself EVERY time I get the chance to check in on you!!! These need to be on a window display…and red currant is so amazing. Wish there were more desserts with that flavor in the States! Also, what an interesting novel topic that is. :D I’m not much into novels anymore, but I like how this pretty much sums up the things that many humans do subconsciously…leaving before getting hurt, etc.? Very interesting, indeed!
Aleksandra -
February 15, 2015 at 7:48 amI honestly can’t wait to try this recipe! It looks so interesting!
Phi -
February 24, 2015 at 5:15 pmWhere is your gold flatware from? I can’t find any ANYWHERE that are reasonably priced! :(
Sarah Menanix -
February 24, 2015 at 5:22 pmIt’s from West Elm!
Alene -
July 26, 2018 at 10:47 pmI’m a little late to the game, but I just came across this in my saved stuff. Could this be expanded into a layer cake? The cupcakes look divine, but I need a birthday cake. This called out to me. I will search a little on your site to find a cake I think might work, but I would rather make this one! Just stubborn, I guess.
Thank you!!
Sarah Menanix -
August 1, 2018 at 2:13 pmSorry for the delay! Your comment came in right after I’d just had my baby:) I actually have a newer version of this recipe with fewer flours up on my blog as both cupcakes and a layer cake – it’s the same basic recipe, but I updated the flours and actually I love it even more. I hope you love it!